Importance of Communication in Family Relationships..

Hey guys, am back after a long long time. so. let's start with our conversation. these days it's very common to see that values of relationships are not up to mark. there is frustration in people for their own family members. this keeps on increasing and suddenly the bond of love breaks n then there is beginning of a partitioning in family. now, that's what we all know but issue of concern is why all these thing are happening. what are the reasons? how to get back that lost sweetness of our relationships? there are many reasons for this and a major issue is generation gap n lack of communication in persons belonging to same family. what happens is everybody is busy in his/her own life. even children n parents are not having time for each other. parents are busy with their jobs. children are in their studies friend circle and all. it's not like they don't wanna talk to each other but problem is that whenever they are together none of them says anything. these days situation is like in a few families children n parents interact only at dining table. otherwise it hardly matters if they are spending time together or not. but that's what one watches or thinks after having a look at daily routines of them. but what about the things going on in their mind? parents are always complaining in their mind that their son/daughter is busy in her own life, he isn't giving us time. he never asked us about our problems. on the other hand what child thinks, mom why don't u show care for me as u used to show before? dad, why don't u think now i am grown enough to help out with ma suggestions in our family issues? you both keeps me sayin that i don't talk to u both in a well behaved manner or u says where is ma smile? u both jus keep on showing anger for that. have you both ever tried to be a friend of mine n ask me that whats the problem? i need you both. please talk to me. please try to understand me.
god, see both are thinking same thing but nobody is trying to come forward. none of them tries to start these talks. y? because parents think child isn't interested n child thinks ma pa will get angry if i would talk that way..

sometimes such conversation takes place from one end.. but, generation gap makes issue worse. just imagine a situation like parents started the topic and suddenly what happens conversation  turns into arguments and debates. just because parents want their child to live the way they want while child is forcing parents to understand demands of today. n suddenly everything gets worse. only one thing can help out here. both of them will have to adjust.. adjust as much as you can. but only one side adjustment won't work here. both of them will have to adjust a bit. otherwise conditions will keep getting worse and situation would be like u will loose your most precious relations. so try to take a step ahead, start the talks.. give some time and take some time from them as well. if you are a child try to make ur parents understand yourself again n again, if you are a parent, don't just keep on showing anger, just place a hand of care on your's child's head, then try to understand him and tell him what do u think.. please move ahead.. these relations are really valuable..